“I had my vasectomy 2 years ago.”

My public confession – 35 (Dyker Heights)

I’m married, I have 3 absolutely gorgeous kids (think model material) and a very nice family. I had my vasectomy 2 years ago. It’s impossible to tell. Since my vasectomy, I’ve gotten stronger, healthier and improved sex drive.

I have an acquaintance. She’s married and they’ve been trying to conceive for a long time. They went to get tested for abnormalities. She tested fine but something was wrong with his swimmers. For whatever reason, in vitro was a failure 3 times and they could no longer afford it. I’ve always been an open ear for her, I don’t know her husband personally, I’ve seen him once.

A year ago she proposed that I inseminate her. I wasn’t sure if she wanted me to do my business in a dixie cup and give it to her or “give it to her” I didn’t want to mention my vasectomy. This was supposed to become our little secret. Eventually we ended up sleeping together. The first time was very awkward. Each subsequent “try” became more and more comfortable. It’s been almost a year and I asked if her eggs had any problems. Dr. said she had one blocked tube but it shouldn’t interfere with dropping eggs from the other side. So I’ve been shooting blanks into her. She loves my kids, she thinks they’re gorgeous and I’m betting she wishes I could give her one too. I’m going to keep up the charade until she says stop. Meanwhile I’m getting some on a regular basis. I’m glad since the wife hasn’t been that interested in sex as of late.

“She loves my kids.”