"I have the ultimate respect for women."

Education on cutilingus (Nyc)

Hi I a male in my early forties, at present I am on a sexual journey to better understand woman and what turns them on, esp. orally. I thought I was quite educated on the subject, but I am not ashamed to say that I have a lot to learn.

When I tried to talk to women frankly, about what turns them on or asked for instructions on how to do a certain thing. I never felt like I was getting a straight answer, and unfortunately I’m afraid I’ve done the same thing to women when they have asked me similar questions. I assume we all wanted to be nice and was afraid that any advice or critique will hurt the others feelings.

A female friend of mine said, that a lot of what she learned about pleasing men came from knowledge that her gay male friends shared with her.

So I am looking for women who are bi or gay (if straight, one who really knows her body) but is comfortable sharing trade secrets, mostly oral.

Note: I do not want sex from you but an education. I am even open to a group of your female friends who would not mind sharing their pleasure zones and oral details.

I believe their many possibilities for pleasure besides intercourse. I have the ultimate respect for women. My goal is to get useful information and tips on how women think about sex.

The barter: can be a massage, financial advice, lite home repair or anything you thing is a reasonable trade.